I give
you, something
blue
my bleeding heart, a blood of light, light carolina blue
a heart drained, changed,
waiting for
you
I give
you, something
blue
my bleeding heart, a blood of light, light carolina blue
a heart drained, changed,
waiting for
you
‘So your contract with Stewardship is two years in London? Two years is a very short time for developing relationships in the UK.’
This was part of my opening conversation with my Vicar from St. Luke’s in Kentish Town, London, In March in February 2013.
It has taken Priscilla and me almost two years to fully absorb the full extent and meaning of these words. People have been very open to us here. But I come back to Jon’s words.
What is their meaning today, 30 October?
We have committed to stay in London; we need to live and love here.
A long story short.
We prayed and sought counsel. Three people who did not really know each other said this sentence exactly to Priscilla and myself:
‘Your work has just began here; we, you have just gotten started.’
To hear this exact phrase from 3 different people in one week we feel & reason it are not individuals speaking but The Lord.
So, NYC friends and family know
This was the hardest hardest decision we have ever made as a couple. Those who know us know I roll with and into big decisions; Priscilla processes everything. I processed this decision; she made a relatively quick decision
Learning point: we change; he leads; we grow
So…
Some new news
We have to move from Hampstead for a variety of reasons; it has been a beautiful time here but we need to move
Our new flat is 49 York Street # 2 in Westminster W1H 1PU. It is as Central London in a nice area-(our Tube stop is Bakers street!) and we are ten minutes by Tube from Paddington station and right by both Hyde and Regents parks.
Our landlords are a lovely lovely Christian couple. The husband is an Elder in a PCA church in the UK (one of the few here) we hopefully will be there 10 December.
Stewardship is renewing my contract and is giving me great flexibility in timing and working from home. (In the /our States home) My latest writings you can register and see
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Priscilla spoke at St Luke’s on 20 October for the women’s meeting on vulnerability from chapters 1 & 2 of Nehemiah.
Sadly, Priscilla fell on 23 October and broke her wrist in 3 places. Hospital care here is great; lovely. She has 2 plates in her arm and is resting and recovery. Simply put: she tripped.
But as my friend Ben said: She got three broken bones in her wrist; Boy I would hate to see the other guys face
He looks bad.
We are well.
Love
women have taught me, what?
Mum, that ‘mothers will forget their children.’ Isaiah 49:15-16. It is not a question in the original Hebrew, but a Statement.
Barbara, a reflection on enduring love, even in unfaithfulness. Hosea 11:8 ‘How can I give you up, Ephraim? … My heart is changed within me; all my compassion is aroused.’
Priscilla, healing from Psalm 126, ‘When the Lord restored the fortunes of[a] Zion, we were like those who dreamed. Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy. Then it was said among the nations, “The Lord has done great things for them.” The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy…’
Pepper, my dog, unconditional love, Proverbs 19: 22a ‘What a man desires is unfailing love…’
Outline for Session 2
‘Design for relationship, a study with Philemon’
Purpose: the purpose of this relationship study is to deepen the understanding and character of each participant by providing an enriching experience with a biblical perspective.
This relationship study #2 is built on a core idea: questioning a text. In study #2 (two) participants will a bible text (Philemon) and then applying understandings from this process to some of life’s practical issues. By questioning a group, or an individual; partners or a community then explore the biblical text or passage through their questions. With application, understanding from this process is placed into practical life situations. Study questions fall into two categories, essential questions and informational questions. These two question sets work not in separate silos, but together. Answer one informational question, and that question and its answer will point you to an essence, to an essential question. How do these questions work together? Informational questions fall into the following cycle: who, what when, where. The 4 Basic W’s. An example: Where is Paul a prisoner? Who is he a physical prisoner of? Whom does Paul identify as his prisoner? What was his prison like?
-essential question
An essential question is constructed from this information to ask an open response, a multiple response question. For example, why does Paul call himself ‘a prisoner of Christ Jesus?’ (v.1) there should be multiple responses to this question; and, where there are multiple possible responses; there can be no one ‘right’ answer. Diversity in response is part of the richness of a good essential question.
All essential questions must be carefully constructed with chosen language that illustrates two “essences.” First, an essential question reflects the essence of a person’s desire. Second, the language of the questions reveals the essence of a person’s character. By their nature, there is no ‘right or wrong’ answer to an essential question.
The essential question for our Philemon relationship study session #2 is,
eq: What is Paul calling Philemon to do? And how is Philemon to do it?
A possible one word answer to this question is ‘restoration.’ Paul wants restoration of relationship between Philemon and Onesimus, his servant slave; Onesimus and the God; Philemon and his house church/community. A definition of restoration is,
“The action of returning something to a former owner, place, or condition”
Example, “the restoration of Andrew’s sight” from Oxford English Dictionary
Another possible answer could be ‘new beginnings’. Philemon and Onesimus are starting over in a new relationship. ‘Love’ can be another answer; ‘Forgiveness’ yet a fourth response. Each of these words/phrases can be traced back to a specific verse in the passage. I then can be asked or ask myself: why do I (or another) choose this word or phrase? The point in both framing and answering an essential question is to use the scripture to develop multiple responses as both an individual and in a small group. How is this done? Let’s consider two core steps in each session.
identify a key verse– how is this done this? There are many ways.
I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. NIV 12
While here in jail, I’ve fathered a child, so to speak. And here he is, hand-carrying this letter—Onesimus! He was useless to you before; now he’s useful to both of us. I’m sending him back to you, but it feels like I’m cutting off my right arm in doing so. I wanted in the worst way to keep him here as your stand-in to help out while I’m in jail for the Message. But I didn’t want to do anything behind your back, make you do a good deed that you hadn’t willingly agreed to. 12-14 the Message
Whom I did send again, and thou him (that is, my own bowels) receive, 1:13 whom I did wish to retain to myself, that in thy behalf he might minister to me in the bonds of the good news, 1:12 Young’s Literal Translation
Now back to the essential question, what is Paul calling Philemon to do? And how is Philemon to do it?
Note that the above possible sample responses shared in eq section of this study (‘restoration’; ‘new beginnings’; ‘love’ and ‘forgiveness’) are stated in one or two words. To review: asking participants to choose a short one or two word response to the essential question is a strategy to get:
-closing connection: Paul is calling Philemon and Onesimus to both do what he is doing: to give his heart, his right arm and his bowels. In other words, his whole self. Restoration is total in the Christian faith; Why? Because God forgives us totally, no matter what we have done.
-personal connection- Whom are you in this narrative? Philemon, Paul, a member of the house church, Onesimus? Whom do you need to forgive, receive, restore? Or maybe you need to ask for one or more of the above from someone you hurt. Pray for His word to lead your next steps.
‘Design for relationship, a study with Philemon’
Purpose: the purpose of this relationship study is to deepen the understanding and character of each participant by providing an enriching experience with a biblical perspective.
Overview of study:
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